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Do you listen?

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More than ever before there is an opportunity to be annoying and abusive by spamming, interrupting and broadcasting discounts deals and offers to people.  Don’t do it, you don’t like it when it happens to you so don’t expect your connected community to like it either.

Instead take time to listen to what they are doing and talking about online, understanding behavioral patterns is not scientific but logical human nature.  Talk to people online similar to offline don’t change to super sales person, change to genuine, authentic, helpful friend.

Listening may take time, but it’s worth it.  This isn’t a game it’s part of life so take it at your speed relevant to your business or organisation.

Someone who listens will find out far more than one who just talks online.

 

Are You comfortable?

Comfort zones are fantastic but they make people less creative and innovative in what they do whether at work or at home. More and more I am meeting people who seem unsure of The Internet [social media] and that has brought me to consider my thoughts and passions and experiences of the past 29 years.

As a performance artist I worked specifically as a ‘living sculpture’ [1986 - 2001]standing practically motionless up to 8 hours a day on a plinth, on the street, in corporate circles, galleries, shop windows, hotels, nightclubs wherever. What relevance has this to social media? Everything, as the whole performance is about engaging, creating interaction, reaction and participation but above all audience analysis. I didn’t just stand there I had to work out what to do with who and when and where to make the whole crowd work with and for me. Just like anything on the internet where people are involved they won’t just come to you through Google, better to specifically find those you want to talk to and save time and money. But as you know people don’t [some people] seem to like this and so become aggressive.

Back to performing I literally put myself on a pedestal to be knocked down the idea wasn’t for support and applause but to see what people did when confronted with something outside of their everyday life no make up no cistume just a 3 piece suit and skiing goggles. Most applaud and support those unsure turn gradually violent verbally and physically. Not all got to me as the self censorship of my audience overruled the minority who were negative again this can relate to online activity.

Recently I have seen and noticed more people worried about what to do online; usually it falls back to being out of their comfort zones and having to consider relearning skills. That is something I have constantly done since 1981 as everything changes and we should with it, the internet will never sit still. Linked In won’t sit still neither will Twitter or Facebook that’s why we need to be flexible and share information not be competitive hiding the crown jewels becasue someone else will be sharing them. Instead learn to collaborate and move forward.

So yes beware some people will be out to trip you up, simply because they are uncomfortable. Trust those that are around you and connected to you. The engaging relationships will last and won’t go away, what I have learned over the past 29 years does work simply because I have focused on people and understanding their needs not mine.

Is it really ‘you’ people meet?


I was always advised to show you care, share what you know and learn from anyone else doing the same. Whether online or offline, over millions of years the human species has developed how to engage and develop relationships and the job is not and never will be done.

Here are a few questions to consider when thinking about engaging and developing relationships, it’s not about technology but people and how they engage with ‘you’.

Whenever and wherever you’re active what is the perception of you?
We all know what we do and how we do it, but do you know why you do it?

People don’t buy what you do but why you do it, so why you doing it?
Do you do business with people who believe what you believe?

How do you develop and create engaging loyal long term relationships?
How do you connect and interact?

What works, what doesn’t work when you connect and interact with people?
Whether having a coffee, croissant or cocktail. Who has inspired and influenced you?

Being authentic, genuine and informative should create trust and loyalty in answer to many of these questions. If you have to think before being yourself then something isn’t right.

Please feel free to add to these questions with your own thoughts below.

Social media local, global but definitely personal.

Do you ever pop next door for a cup of sugar or to borrow a memory stick or spare mouse? I have shared two of those items and had them returned within the past 18 months, the item I didn’t share maybe my neighbour got in a car and drove to buy who knows.  The relevance of community is important both online and offline and never should the two be separated.

With social media predictions for 2011 disappearing it’s worth looking now at what’s important not to you but your customer, client or contact.  The next big thing can be sorted out by those working on it naturally not those desperate to find it, when it comes along you can and will use it though. Adding value and awareness to your network or community by delivering a personal service doesn’t mean you will be glued to your keyboard 24/7 but it does mean you will have a stronger community because you listen.

Twitter is seen to deliver the parts of conversation we once had over the garden fence not too long and not too short but not needing to be whole sagas, people enjoy and need to communicate with each other.  In society today we are often on our own and this is where technology adds the benefit of being effective in connecting us to the people we want to talk to.

Communicating and talking doesn’t just mean telling everyone you walked the dog or came through the door, we never used to do that when we met people in the street by saying ‘I just came off the train and here I am in front of you.’  So why do it now, why not use the technology that’s available to add conversations where a few years ago it wasn’t possible or where you had to send a fax, letter or make a phone call.

Social media is changing the way we communicate simply through the technology we use, the most important aspect of communication has and will always be people.  Don’t be convinced by someone that they can re-market talking they can simply give you the tips and techniques to make it effective.

Through Facebook, Linked In, Twitter and many other online platforms we have the opportunity to reach communities and networks to engage with future and existing customers.  This doesn’t mean the end of print; it does mean you can spend less on printed marketing as you are better able to define who you may want to send printed information to.  This could be local or global, why should a small independent retail shop in a small town simply sell to the public of that town?  They can do this for the benefit of the people within the town but also for those outside travelling distance they can provide a global sales service. The Ecommerce may actually underwrite the retail outlet and make it possible to provide both.

This positive approach to independent retailing may not save every business but it is something that many businesses should look at.  It also delivers the importance of a personal service whether that’s answering a mention on Twitter, responding to a comment on Facebook or simply delivering something through the postal network that was purchased online.

The people we are connected with on a daily basis are all in some way or another going to be online within the day, by building a strategy with a schedule and policy for social media we can all engage and strengthen the relationships we already have by using the technology available.  It takes patience but relationships are not as easy as simply clicking connect, follow or like. Always remember its people that are important not numbers or technology, because those people you engage with will engage with other people.

Pecha Kucha – Huddersfield 13.01.11

This slideshow was first seen at a Pecha Kucha night in Huddersfield 13 January 2011, to find out more about Pecha Kucha visit www.pecha-kucha.org . The basic guidelines are for presentations with 20 slides each lasting 20 seconds, 6 minutes 40 seconds in total for each presenter.

This is about a Mail Art project which I curated between 1988 and 1991, not too much more to add to that other than I asked people to send me one blade or more, of grass.  Personally I believe interaction and participation is far more important than explanation.

01 Grass – more than just a collection but a connection

02 Started in Central Park NYC, but really Brighton England.  My request for ‘a present of a piece of NYC turf’ was forgotten.

03 Meanwhile, I was heavily involved in Mail Art and it was time to start a project of my own.

04 Grass from the ground one blade or more was my opening sentence to mail artists between 1988 and 1991.
Creative interpretation and participation was all that was necessary no rules.

05 Shozo Shimamoto was one of the first to reply.

06 Some people went a little further and provided evidence of origin.

07 This sample was exciting not for the ‘Riot Area’ grass but the contact with Ben Ponton a member of Soviet France makers of experimental industrial music and artwork who I had followed throughout the 1980’s.

08 Dried and bagged the grass wasn’t always green why should it be that would constitute a rule.

09 X marks the spot of the cell which this person wrote many, many letters to me from Sing Sing Prison.  The grass was secondary to this and many other relationships that grew through my request.

10 Le Peintre Nato a French artist who is totally true to himself.

11 Creative inspiration and involvement varied and was inspiring, from contact with The KGB to meeting, visiting and regularly exhibiting in a New York gallery to simply meeting real people across the world.

12 And still always good to know where the grass had specifically been picked.

13 Grass and Jack Kerouac – perfect.

14 D F Busky’s own pet in the post, just for me.

15 A friend travelled to Japan brought this sample back and was disappointed not to get a sample from Hiroshima.

16 This was one of the last submissions to the project at a time of much change and growth in Eastern Europe.

17 A never ending supply of creativity was shown over the three years, often making me smile as I opened my post sat on the beach in Brighton.

18 Dobrica was a very active mail artist who I collaborated with many times through his fanzine, not the best of time in his country either which was seen in the work he produced.

19 More than once the changes in Europe were echoed in the project here a postcard of a hole in the Berlin Wall with grass from another hole in the wall.

20 Three years 329 samples 46 countries, exhibited in my home, covered by radio, television and national newspapers. More importantly though relationships started then, continue today and I continue to connect show and share creatively online and offline with people through ‘platform58’.

Mark Longbottom



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